I have a better Choice than you ! handling Rejections



 Have you faced any rejection? If yes, then congratulations, you have started your life. If your answer is no, then you just have to wait; you are in the line.

Once, in a TV interview with a successful businessman, the interviewer asked a familiar question: "What is your secret behind your success? What advice do you like to give for the future generation?" He smiled and countered with another question, "Is this your first time in an interview session?" She replied, "I have done some interviews with celebrities, but this is my first interview with someone like you." He smiled again, and she repeated the question. This time, he stood up from his chair and walked out of the studio, leaving everyone confused. The interviewer was worried; her face suddenly felt gloomy.

After the show, the head came towards the interviewer and asked if she had asked any wrong questions. She replied, "No, I have not. I just asked what the secret to his success was. Maybe he felt discomfort with it and left." After two minutes, he returned to the room and sat in front of the interviewer. He asked her, "What did you feel when I ignored your question and walked out?" She said, "I was embarrassed; I felt like I had done something wrong." He smiled and said, "My secret of success is I face all rejections, ignorance's, and 'no' with a smiling face. The advice I want to give to the young generations is: face rejections with a smiling face because it will teach you what life is. It's difficult, I know. Rejections are unexpected, like the one that happened to you just now. But we have to develop a mindset to accept rejections with a smile. This will help you see things from others' perspectives, control your emotions, and become intelligent. It will help you celebrate both success and failure equally, preventing you from falling into the trap of ego. These are the qualities needed to become a successful person," he concluded with a smile.

"We are all humans, vulnerable to emotions, especially rejection. When it comes, some people fall into depression, while others turn to drugs and other harmful activities. It's because we haven't trained our minds to accept others' 'no' or rejections. At some point in our lives, we all face rejection; it's a crucial moment that decides whether we will succeed or not. If we can face them with a simple smile and let them go, congratulations, you have mastered one of the greatest things in the world. Only a few can handle it.

Rejection is a natural part of life, but how we react to it defines our character and determines our path. It's not about avoiding rejection altogether but rather about learning to navigate through it with grace and resilience.

Each rejection, each setback, is an opportunity for growth and self-discovery. It teaches us valuable lessons about perseverance, determination, and the power of resilience. By facing rejection head-on and embracing it with a smile, we cultivate a mindset of strength and fortitude that propels us forward on our journey towards success.

Moreover, embracing rejection with a smile allows us to maintain a positive outlook on life, even in the face of adversity. It helps us to remain optimistic and hopeful, knowing that every rejection brings us one step closer to our goals. Instead of dwelling on the negative aspects of rejection, we focus on the possibilities it presents and the lessons we can learn from it.

Furthermore, by embracing rejection with a smile, we inspire those around us to do the same. Our attitude becomes contagious, spreading positivity and resilience to others who may be facing their own challenges. We become beacons of hope and encouragement, showing others that no matter how many times we are knocked down, we always get back up again, stronger and more determined than ever.

In conclusion, facing rejection with a smile is not just a mindset; it's a way of life. It empowers us to overcome obstacles, learn from our experiences, and ultimately achieve success. So the next time you encounter rejection, remember to face it with a smile, for it is in that moment that you truly begin to realize your potential and embrace the limitless possibilities that life has to offer.

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